“I learned from this not to wear pleated khaki pants again.”(FYI, This Is My 500th Post!)

As an overzealous patron of the library system in Western Massachusetts, I recently requested the first season of Murphy Brown (sadly the only season of the series to be produced on DVD). With just the first episode, I found myself wondering why this amazing show has not enjoyed a resurgence. It’s a shame for younger generations, to say the least, that they don’t have the strong female role model of Murphy Brown in their realm of knowledge. I tend to look to the past for inspiration (my other entertainment passion at the moment is film noir (of which coincidentally, some films were directed by Candice Bergen’s first husband French director Louis Malle!)), and perhaps I found this show at just the right time, as I’m at yet another crossroads in my life and in need of some encouragement. I can think of no better pop culture inspiration, particularly for a rebellious female, than Murphy Brown. She makes grown men quake in their shoes! Her inimitable reputation precedes her! Her journalistic prowess is unparalleled. As is her bold sense of style.

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Yes, I took pictures of my TV. When you want something done right (or done at all), you have to do it yourself. There aren’t pictures available online of all of the beautiful pieces to this puzzle.

The first episode, entitled Respect, begins with the song of the same name, sung by Aretha Franklin. For those of you new to this show, one element it was known for was its use of classic Motown music, which many claim is the reason the show has had difficulty being released to DVD. Apparently the rights to the music are extremely expensive. However, music can be edited out or changed. I think this is really an issue of effort, and yes, even sexism, because this show really ruffled a lot of feathers when it was on the air.

Episode one is the only episode that includes commentary by Candice Bergen. She compared going in to work at the studio to working in a mine, for she was new to acting on television and the studio environment. I find that metaphor fitting, because in my opinion she produced diamonds!

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Murphy – “You’re Miles Silverberg?” Miles – “I skipped a year in high school.”

The ensemble cast pulled it’s weight too. I think when I initially watched this show, as a child, I found Miles (Grant Shaud) annoying.  Now I can fully appreciate the neurotic little bugger. I even sat next to him at a restaurant – John’s on 12th – when I was in college! I can honestly say he is handsome in person, and I recognized him right away, even despite dim lighting (it’s a gift). Unfortunately I didn’t have the guts to talk to him. He played the role of executive producer of FYI, and Murphy’s foil, brilliantly. The tension between them is delicious. Murphy is annoyed to have a boss who is so green-behind-the-ears, while Miles is just thrilled to work for one of his journalist heroes.

I mean, anyone would be annoyed to find their new boss is 25 years old (and their new co-anchor is a former Miss America), let alone the day they return to work after a stint in rehab. Yet another marvelous aspect of this show is that we are introduced to our hero, right off the bat, flaws and all. She is a recovering alcoholic and is also endeavoring to give up smoking. Given that information, the audience might think that her biting wit and suffer-no-fools charm are temporary, but I like to think that they were always part of Murphy, intoxicants or not.

Not only is it refreshing for a lead character to be presented in this honest way, but also yes, because it’s a woman. A powerful, well-known media figure, who is female, with a drinking problem. Traditionally, that would be a role for a male, let’s face it. The plight of addiction, for a white woman, would be kept hush-hush, and those who knew about it would probably just gossip behind her back. I say that with Murphy’s pedigree in mind. In the first season, we do get to meet her mother, and it becomes quite clear that she is from an upper class world.

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For now we’ll stick to the pilot. Everyone is sort of walking on tiptoe around Murphy, given her recent drying out. They’re wondering if she’ll be the same old Murph. In fact, she herself is wondering if she’s still got “it”. Her interview for her first show post rehab is with the smarmy, sleazy Bobby Powell, who is alleged to have had an affair with the female candidate for the Vice Presidency. As the episode progresses, we’re wondering if Murphy will cater to the pressure not to go for Bobby Powell’s jugular. Hell no! “It’s in her genes! Also she has bad PMS!”

While it’s not that unusual for someone to mention PMS on TV, and usually in a derogatory way, it doesn’t feel like a slam here. It’s a little reminder of what a woman has to deal with in addition to her work. And it shows how far we’ve come that it can be mentioned in the workplace (this pilot aired November 14, 1988). It’s like femininity is just another weapon in Murphy’s arsenal, rather than something that would ever bring her down. Earlier in the episode, she instructs Miles to read aloud something from her desk calendar, and he zeroed in on “buy tampons”. Do you think Murphy was embarrassed? Not a chance, especially not in front of Miles, of whom she clearly thinks little. One of the first things she asks him is if he knows the Shirelles, The Ronettes, and the Delphonics. Of course she was making a crack at his age, but what a way to measure a man’s worth!

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Everyone is afraid of her, yet in awe of her.

In the first episode we see Murphy in this red jacket. As I learned from Candice Bergen’s commentary, this style choice spoke volumes – it is not dissimilar to traditional fox hunter garb. Murphy is the hunter and her interviewee is often the prey. Candice contributed her ideas to the wardrobe and even included pieces from the men’s clothing. As she noted in the commentary, not every choice was a winner: “I learned from this not to wear pleated khaki pants again” (see first picture at the top).

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Most of the episodes volley between the office, the studio, Phil’s (“Close the door!”) and Murphy’s townhouse. While Murphy is outspoken and confident no matter where she is, it’s at home where she truly lets her hair down. And belts out her favorite songs. It’s also where we find Eldin, her housepainter (played by Robert Pastorelli, R.I.P.). I love Eldin. While a housepainter, he has the soul of an artist. Under his spattered white overalls, he always has on a cool vintage shirt to compliment his two-toned wingtips. His character offers a nice childlike companionship for Murphy. The addition of his character also helps to bring out Murphy’s softer side. They trade barbs and even dance and sing together, both being true fans of Motown.

This episode really packed a musical punch, not only opening with Aretha’s “Respect,” and incorporating her version of “Natural Woman,” but also ending with The Temptations’ “The Way You Do The Things You Do”.

It’s badass enough that Murphy is a tough as nails journalist, but the fact that this show portrays her as someone brave enough to go to rehab and return to her job takes it to the next level. But that was always the intention of the show’s creator, Diane English. She didn’t set out creating a character that would blend in, like so many roles written for women. She set out to create “Mike Wallace in a dress”. In fact, the greatest inspiration for Murphy Brown was Linda Ellerbee (who before introducing children to hard news via Nickelodeon, was a highly lauded TV journalist). I wish there was a prequel to Murphy Brown, to see how she began in the field, and how she took the risks she mentions in the pilot.

This post is just the first in a series of my utter obsession with this show. Stay tuned.

I Met Maira!

Today I totally geeked out at my wonderful job, thanks to the visit of one Maira Kalman.

She was very kind in indulging my fangirl ways. It’s almost amazing how such bold and whimsical illustrations can come from the woman that I met, who was so reserved and calm.

She personalized two books for me, one adult – And the Pursuit of Happiness, and one child, her latest book which she read in the historical society today – Looking at Lincoln.

Last year I was fortunate enough to catch her exhibit at The Jewish Museum here in the city. It was a wonderland of Maira’s work. Today I told her that I would have gladly lived in that exhibit, and she very modestly said that “they” did a great job putting it together.

I hope that I can achieve even a fraction of her creative output in my life. On her way out of the shop today, she made a point of saying goodbye to me, and she even remembered my name. I love Maira Kalman.

2012 New York International Gift Fair

This year I jumped at the opportunity to attend the NY gift show. My colleagues groaned for all of the walking it entails, but I like a challenge.

While I knew it would be a great chance to check out innovative and fun designs, I didn’t think I’d find nearly so many vegan and earth friendly companies!

I was delighted to peruse the booth of Green Tree Jewelry! A family company from San Diego, they create unique earrings out of renewable resources. Plus, Green Tree Jewelry is all made in America! It didn’t hurt that their salesman was really cute.

There were several vegan soap vendors. The woman in the Lotus Love Beauty booth was super kind and generous. She gave me two samples of their quite fragrant soaps – a verbana coconut, and Ananda:bliss.

I wish you could smell these!

She encouraged me to discover my favorite scents and then carefully selected the generous samples. Her company is based in San Diego too, and they donate a portion of their proceeds to The Shanti Project.

A little closer to home is the Metropolis Soap Co. based in Brooklyn. Though not as generous as Lotus Love Beauty, they did give me a bit of a sample of their Rosemary and Spearmint vegan soap. Certified cruelty-free by PETA, Metropolis does not test on animals, and even avoids the use of palm oil, the deforestation of which kills animals like orangutans.

I was glad to see Dynomighty there as well. I’ve had a Dynomighty wallet for almost a year now and I love it. This Brooklyn company has a ton of new styles to choose from.

Michael Roger of Decomposition Books was also there! Love, love this conscious spin on a classic design! (Also based in Brooklyn!)

It was so encouraging to see several forward-thinking companies!

Year of the Dog

On a whim, I just watched Year of the Dog with Molly Shannon (it’s on Netflix instant!). I expected it to just be a quirky indie comedy about a woman and her pet. I was immensely surprised that it turned into a story about veganism and animal rights.

It’s easy, as a vegan and advocate of animal rights, to be made to feel crazy by seemingly everyone. Everyday is a challenge – answering people’s ignorant questions about your lifestyle, making animal-friendly selections in terms of not just food, but also clothing, health products – everything!

Molly Shannon’s character Peggy seems like an alien at work, amid her brother and his family – even in her own house. At several points I felt like I could’ve written this screenplay. Actually, Mike White  did, the same guy that’s us the likes of School of Rock Orange County, and The Good Girl. And he’s vegan!!!

Someday I hope to have several pets. Though hopefully I don’t end up exactly like Peggy.

Kansas?

I feel compelled to head West. Midwest actually.

1. I’ve just fallen in love with Buster Keaton, and upon further research learned that he was born in Kansas.

2. My heroine, Osa Johnson, whom I just read another book about, is the basis, along with her husband Martin, of a museum in Chanute, Kansas.

3. The Wizard of Oz and my girl Judy. Duh.

4. Paul motherf*n Rudd is from Kansas. If there are more men like him there, the women there have probably been keeping them secret.

I am going to start planning a road trip.

Adopt me, Alice Carey!

 

Alice Carey is amazing. A few months ago I was sitting on a bench on the Highline,  scribbling in my journal, and along she came. I recognized her from Ari Seth Cohen’s endlessly inspirational blog – Advanced Style. We didn’t exchange any words, but Alice certainly looked me over carefully; me in my big railroad striped overalls that I’d scored in a Monoprix in Northern France over the summer. I believe she liked my outfit. I want her to adopt me and take me shopping for vintage tweed.

Gratitude?

Bish pleaze.

So today is something that my country considers, generally, to be a holiday. I don’t get it, personally. Sure it’s nice to contemplate what one is grateful for (not that that’s the focus of most people today), but really I don’t see the need to slaughter countless innocent turkeys or gorge on food (likely more the focus of most).

Even worse of course is the day after Thanksgiving, Black Friday, where people feel it necessary to run out and empty their wallets. F that. For me that day is an important holiday known as BUY NOTHING DAY.

We vote with our wallets. Why should we rush out and contribute anything to this FIRE  (Finance, insurance, real estate) economy? Why not use the day to tap into your creativity, or do good for others (if you don’t have to work (if you’re unemployed like too many people, sorry, but you should appreciate this anti-commercial rant most)?

It’s just another Thursday to me. I plan on doing laundry and watching some movies, enjoying the quiet of my apartment while I can. THAT is something for which I am truly grateful. Oh, and the upcoming move I have next week. Bye bye Brooklyn!

And I’m grateful for Bjork lately. Sometimes I just ask myself, what would Bjork do? Try it.

All the Jewelry I Never Got

Seems like this Natalie B Coleman girl is fit for commiseration. The title of this line gets me to thinking… if I were to compile a list of all the jewelry I’ve never received, major highlights would include a macaroni necklace in first grade – my crush made one for every girl in the class except for me – and a proper engagement ring from a twit who doesn’t know what the word forever means. Obviously both devasting!

There are many more looks on Coleman’s website, from this collection “All the Jewelry I Never Got” and other brilliant collections – “Damaged Goods” and even one based on Grey Gardens!

Via Design for Mankind